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You can have a relationship with any man of any age, but for some reason, you notice that dates are more comfortable and fun with younger men. And young men seem to be drawn to you. As strange as this may seem to you, you’re not alone.

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This is becoming more and more common. Women in positions of authority are finding emotional fulfilment from dating young men. And young men prefer dating cougars to younger, immature women. What’s going on here? These 7 things:
Cougar love: 16 reasons young men are attracted to older women. You’re a strong, independent, and successful woman. You can have a relationship with any man of any age, but for some reason, you notice that dates are more comfortable and fun with younger men. And young men seem to be drawn to you. As strange as this may seem to you, you’re not alone. This is becoming more and more common. Women in positions of authority are finding emotional fulfillment from dating young men. And young men prefer dating cougars to younger, immature women. It’s sexual tension waiting to blossom. What’s going on here? These 16 things: 1) He loves your experience. There’s no getting around it: experience is valuable. You’ve become wiser and better at coping with difficult situations in life. You’ve been through it all in life, and a young man feels like there’s so much to learn from you. You’re the rock he’s always wanted. You might be attracted to his zest for life, but he loves the fact that you’ve got your life together and won’t take any shit. And yes, experience also applies to the bedroom. Dean, 28, explains it well in Beyond Ages: “One of the biggest reasons why do younger men like older women is: life experience. They’ve been in the game for a long time. They know things the younger girls can only dream of! This obviously translates into various departments – whether relating to what’s going on inside her mind or what happens inside the bedroom.” 2) You know what he wants. I’ve recently come across a new concept in relationship psychology that explains so much about who men fall in love with. And I think it hits the nail on the head as to why men are attracted to older women. It’s called the hero instinct. Relationship expert James Bauer coined the term. In short, a man wants to see himself as a hero. As someone his partner genuinely wants and needs to have around. Not as a mere accessory, ‘best friend’, or ‘partner in crime’. As James argues, male desires are not complicated, just misunderstood. Instincts are powerful drivers of human behavior and this is especially true for how men approach their relationships. I know it sounds a bit silly. In this day and age, women don’t need someone to rescue them, especially an older woman. They don’t need a ‘hero’ in their lives. And I couldn’t agree more. But here’s the ironic truth. Men do still need to feel like a hero. Because it’s built into their DNA to seek out relationships that allow them to feel like a protector. Older women are more likely to recognize this need in men and feel empowered to actually trigger this instinct. I don’t often pay much attention to popular new theories in psychology. Or recommend videos. But I think the hero instinct is a fascinating take on what makes a man fall in love and why they’re more attracted to older women. If you want to learn more about the hero instinct, check out James Bauer’s free video here. Some ideas are life-changing. And when it comes to relationships, I think this is one of them. 3) He can learn a lot. The older you are, the experience you have. The more experience you have, the more you can teach. That’s why younger men are so attracted to older women, especially the men that are ambitious and want to expand themselves intellectually. Gareth Rubin in The Telegraph explains it perfectly: “You’ll understand when you’re older.’ Literally everyone has heard those maddening words, and yet when you’re in a relationship with someone older than you – going to dinner together, choosing a flat together et al – you realise just how true it is.” Rich life experience is hard to come by, and a man will mature more quickly if they have someone to learn from. What’s more, you’ve had experience with different types of men, and you can easily point out the young man’s flaws and opportunities for growth. You understand what kind of man he is and what kind of man he can be. 4) You both know what you want. You’re older, wiser and know exactly what you want. A casual fling? Or a serious and meaningful relationship? You find the guy that’s right for you. According to Alan Angal, 36, he was attracted to his older fiancée, Jennifer Siegner, 45, for her stability: “With some women I dated, they wanted to play games, but Jennifer always communicated that she wanted something real…I always knew where I stood with her.” And while you might think that young men only want something quick, it’s not entirely true. Some guys become so in love with you, they just want to be with you for the rest of their life. In other words, you’re “the one”. Some studies have found that men prefer honest women, particularly for long-term relationships. 5) He respects you for all that you’ve achieved. You didn’t become a successful woman out of nowhere. It’s taken hard work, dedication and persistence. He understands, admires and respects this, as he knows how difficult it is for a woman to rise in the ranks. According to psychologist, Sam Owen, this may be a reason why younger men like older women: “Young men nowadays probably also recognize that older women are adept at diligently juggling so many responsibilities (career, children, housekeeping, fitness, finances, socializing), which makes them intriguing and attractive and a more secure option.” You’re filled with wisdom and stability and he can’t believe his luck that he has become part of your life. 6) He learns a new perspective. Most people spend time with those who are their own age. This goes for dating as well. So when you spend time with someone who is in a different stage of life, you see life through a different lens. It cannot be underestimated when can be learned from this. According to Vincent, a man who has been dating an older woman, there is so much to learn: “Just the fact that there’s so much to learn from an older woman, that they have so many more life experiences to draw upon, is an adventure to me. It’s like a rush.” You have a better idea of what’s important in life, and most importantly, what isn’t. Instead of worrying about little petty issues at work, you can help him see that there are bigger issues to focus on. Getting his priorities straight gives him a huge upper hand in life. 7) You are confident and independent. Most younger ladies are more concerned about what people think of them. This can lead to superficial and insecure tendencies (selfies anyone?). But older women have been through that phase. Life experience has given them a better idea of who they are and what’s really important in life. You don’t care as much what people think of you. You know it doesn’t matter. Young people tend to seek validation from others because they aren’t sure of who they are. Folk wisdom suggests that confidence is attractive and research has also suggested that men and women rate confidence as an attractive trait in a potential partner. For a young man, this self-confidence you possess is captivating. It also leads to less drama, which is extremely attractive to any man. 8) You are emotionally mature. Young people are filled with energy and hormones and as a result their emotions can get out of control. But an older woman has learned how to control her emotions. She’s been through the ups and downs of life. This doesn’t mean that you’re boring. Quite the opposite. You understand the value of basking in joyful moments and making the most of it. Men also love the fact that you don’t play games, as Gareth Rubin describes in The Telegraph, “Mind games are very much the environ of the younger girl.













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